doesnt mean you are one
just means dissociation & trauma
very very very likely
missing memories likely
very biased memories likely
learn to observe better
pick up a camera
do street photography
wildlife photography
learn to see what is actually there
wait there in silence til you see it
everyone can get better
all it is
is choices & time
choices over time
i am sick to death
of playing this role
it is so not me it is excruciating
i did it for the residential school children still lost in the ground & i did it for palestine
may men get better at being people
may men stop costing women & girls so very much