Felt this way last night nostr:note1jg45lgcee25z6ymhxd6aqxt0wgr3qujxe6hpgkapaucg9ma3rlcsa6zx5e
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this seems like one of those tinder bios
I’ve given up dating apps. Hopefully forever. Dying alone seems preferable to the hell that was last week. 🤦🏼♀️
Oh my… that bad? 🥺
Hinge worked for me lol 2 year anniv in dec
Pray tell?
Maybe one day I will tell the whole story. I will say it was Hinge I was using. Most of my likes were from under 23’s and plus 55 year olds. Not the demographic I’m looking to date. At least 3 likes from guys listed as being in their 40’s but that looked twice the age of my Dad. My current location might be part of the problem. Had better luck in Los Angeles. Seriously messaged a guy I dated earlier this year just to thank him for being normal.
🫂 You are such a great woman. Sometimes you meet a partner when you are looking for the least and not expecting it. I wish you that in any case
That would be lovely.
Lol I wonder how that one normal guy felt recording that message.
Are you in sf? How about the whole "man Jose" being a great place for ladies to find husbands because of the gender ratio?
Not currently. I’d definitely have better luck there now because I’ve been monogamous and just wanted a relationship the whole time. That works better in SF in your 30’s. Honestly not being polyamorous was my biggest challenge when dating in SF. More people start being wiling to settle down in their 30’s and want to start a family.
After what nostr:npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap tells? Nope. Simply nope.
I had a long day and should fall into bed tired. But I can't fall asleep 🥹🫣
I wake up in the middle of the night, every night, for usually a couple of hours 😭
Sometimes I come on nostr, even though you’re not supposed to go on your phone, because usually someone is awake somewhere
I read once that style of biphasic sleeping used to be really common before electricity. People would go to sleep pretty much with the sun, wake for a few hours in the middle of the night. Husbands and wives would have time with each other before falling back asleep and then waking with the sun.
The religious used to pray in the middle of the night while awake. The nightike prayer was called Matins and was said around 2AM.
I was trying to abbreviate what people did while awake. I realize now I made it sound like they were having sex. The article went into examples of activities across classes and sleeping arrangements.
