Nothing wrong in moving on if it doesn’t work, and way more damaging to yourself and to your relationship if you stay on for too long, imho, because you thought there’s that 10% moment of happiness you can get back or that you had this fairytale idea of what happiness was. I think that suppressive culture can backfire because you end up living your life based on how everyone else will judge you. But man that’s a lottt of multitasking :) jk! I haven’t travelled much but I think men in France were way more forward, followed by NY. In Bay area and Texas there were a lot of elderly moms and dads with “I have a son...”.