And I don't want any woman, I want one that will be a good companion and not be a cause for compromising any of my core beliefs. I refuse to do that and that's why I am now where I am in life, since my ex went full nutter.
Discussion
These are good qualities, but you can be flexible without compromising your core beliefs. Relationships are give and take. It sounds like you were a giver and ex was a taker and you got burned.