Strike no longer supports direct deposit, but I believe that River and Swan both do (assuming you’re in the US).
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I checked and looks like River only has single-sig automated withdrawals currently. I reached out to their support to ask if they were planning to implement xpub support.
Swan does but it's entirely manual set up for that use case. That's why I'm looking for options.
Strike was really promising as a lightning first company. I even pre-emptively set up direct deposit when they had it. But they never implemented lightning withdrawals from a btc balance.
In the end, if I'm going to do anything manually I may as well be using Bisq.
single-address rather, not single-sig*
I know it’s a pain in the butt, but why not auto-withdraw to a single sig wallet and then send from there to your preferred self-custody arrangement? I assume for the convenience of auto-pilot “set it and forget it?” It would be cool to see more services like the one you are describing.
I am still rooting for Strike to be successful, but I had a few disappointing experiences with their customer service that have caused me to reconsider. If you end up finding a solution that works, I would definitely be interested to hear what you come up with.