Yes, I'm down for little experiments! I have a lot of weird experiences and notice themes on what makes this more likely. I highly recommend Robert Becker's The Body Electric because he proofs the concepts of the élan vital which is the electromagnetic forces within the body (and throughout the universe) that drive regeneration and healing (and I believe other powers). Very related to what you hypothesize here but it gets into the nitty gritty biology of it all.
For what you suggested with testing eating, I do notice I have more abilities when I am in a fasted state. After a big meal I usually won't have an experience no matter how hard I try. I have a "biological primer" that I've shared with folks in the Flight Club Practical sessions if you're curious I can share it with you it's only a page long with various things I find helpful to raising the energy and having an interesting experience.
I don't think anything you wrote sounds ridiculous. Why wouldn't an elder want to heal their progeny with their love? It sounds like not just your grandmother has psychic abilities, but you do too if you can see your health issues in dreams and meditation.
(I do think we all have these psychic abilities, but that's not to say you two aren't special just to emphasize how not ridiculous this is to me.)