what countries allow you to have more than one wife?

Afghanistan, Bahrain, Iraq, Kuwait, Oman, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Syria, United Arab Emirates, and Yemen all have laws that allow polygamy

Kenya.

Algeria, Cameroon, Central African Republic, Chad, Egypt, Nigeria, and Uganda all permit polygamy to varying degrees.

Bangladesh, Brunei, and Indonesia (with some regional exceptions) legally recognize polygamy.

via: the internet

do you live in one of these places?

a wife is not a metaphor, an idea, or a concept.

It is a person allowed into a hospital room if her husband is there because of a medical emergency.