Oh, it's all speculation. Regardless, I find value in your ideas. This whole topic is something I've been fascinated with for a while. A long time ago, I was actually considering writing a sci-fi novel and it was during those thought experiments that I came across the time compression issue.
My thinking on it is pretty similar to yours. I focus on the concept of novelty and new experience as one of the primary drivers of the perceived time compression. The longer we're here, and the more we experience allows our brains to power-down to some extent, and go into a sort of standby mode as we navigate routine, mundane, and familiar tasks. We don't perceive time the same way when we're in this mode, which results in longer and longer periods when time is passing us by without our being conscious of it. The result is the perception that time is accelerating as we get older. Of course that's also speculation, but it makes some sense I think.