Most people are never going to setup their inbox, outbox relays. That's far bigger issue than the lack of support by older clients. Most clients, even those that work with outbox do not create inbox/outbox lists and when they do it is either lots of big relays or a collection or random ones that barely work.
nostr:nprofile1qyw8wumn8ghj76r0v3kxymmy9e3k7unpvdkx2tn5dahkcue0qy88wumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmv9uq32amnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwv3sk6atn9e5k7tcqyztuwzjyxe4x2dwpgken87tna2rdlhpd02va5cvvgrrywpddnr3jygfya2w Is it possible, that the outbox model NIP-65 is working well, once all the big clients implemented it as well?
But as long as only a few clients implement it, it is eay to write notes, which do not find my followers or not being able to find the notes of all my follows, when most of them have no relay metadata yet...
How do you handle this problem? I am thinking to wait until #amethyst and #damus implemented it and hope that everything will work better then.
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I am hoping you are wrong on that.
Or are there alternatives to make Nostr really decentralized, censorshipproove and scalable?