Replying to Avatar Gary ₿usey

As strange as it may sound, I actually find something pleasantly fulfilling about having enemies. People have a tendency to view you as an enemy if their jealous of you for some reason. I had to go through this after I quit my job.
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Juraj 2y ago

True, but it's also very unhealthy (for you). My heuristic is - avoid comparison to other people. Be self-referential. Are you better than last year?

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Gary ₿usey 2y ago

Of course, I'm better than last year. The past three years have been incredible for the most part! And you're right. It is unhealthy. But, I can't stop them from viewing me in such a way. I worked hard on achieving my goals. I achieved them and they haven't. That's their problem. I wasn't trying to suggest that I go out of my way to look for enemies.

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Juraj 2y ago

Perfect! ❤️

All I'm saying is that it's all what I call "other people problems". It's not good nor bad for me. I mean the existence of enemies, not their actions, they can have consequences for me.