Second afterthought, I have (in my little pinky book of mischieves) wrote idea/scenario that i would try, and it was about conditioning sub that he could have an orgasm only with something in the ass. Next step would be anytime he would like to play, he would need to be touchin there/be plugged. Just forcing to make pavlov link between assplay => orgasm. You know, the usual thing people have fantasies about...right?
Discussion
There are a lot of things you can do to deserve a PERFECT orgasm.
Well, (my) orgasm is like half the battle. Sometimes even less... fifth perhaps? I have urge to be used as tool and/or toy of Her satisfaction. Tainting that ultimate achievement with my own pleasure muds that hormone rush a little.
But that says nothing against beeing strapped to milking table and having to endure anything She would like to. After all, I am just a subby leaf in the goddess's wind. 😊