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IMHO: Make it as competitive as u can but beat them most if not all of the time so that when they finally beat u (and they will if it’s important enough to them to stick with it) it matters… to both of u.
Having said that, do what feels right to u…I’m sure I let mine win on plenty of occasions to help them build confidence …but the losses prolly build coping skillz and determination/ perseverance…but every kid is different and sometimes they need the win (I’m lookin at u nostr:npub1ng8zqsa04gzk5y4ch0nh43xrrpwqu27ydvf24s2cdzg5gv3upc7qycqjc0 🤭😉😂😂🫂⭕️)
…🤔😳…also remember that those lil *ssholes are gonna be pickin out ur nursing home one day😖🤦🏽♂️😂😂
Just one idgit’s opinion…
Discussion
Age matters. Younger = build confidence. Try hard & you can win. Kids aren’t stupid either. They know when you’re lying or pretending.
Older kids need to know how to lose and accept it. Losing gracefully is more of a flex than winning like an asshole.
I won a lot but losses were what made me better.
