IMHO: Make it as competitive as u can but beat them most if not all of the time so that when they finally beat u (and they will if it’s important enough to them to stick with it) it matters… to both of u.

Having said that, do what feels right to u…I’m sure I let mine win on plenty of occasions to help them build confidence …but the losses prolly build coping skillz and determination/ perseverance…but every kid is different and sometimes they need the win (I’m lookin at u nostr:npub1ng8zqsa04gzk5y4ch0nh43xrrpwqu27ydvf24s2cdzg5gv3upc7qycqjc0 🤭😉😂😂🫂⭕️)

…🤔😳…also remember that those lil *ssholes are gonna be pickin out ur nursing home one day😖🤦🏽‍♂️😂😂

Just one idgit’s opinion…