You could use Zeus if you have lightning node. Then you have self custody. It is what I’ve done. I also use Muun wallet it’s seems good. Have t used it yet but breeze seems good. as well from what I’ve read

If you want wallet for holding a few to zap here on nostr WoS is easy. Also alby extension or telegram tip bot. I use all three of these and work well. Just remember they are custodial. Not your keys so only a small balance

You can also hook alby and tip bot to your blue wallet which I also do and it’s great.

Endless options