3. The value you think you have.

We are taught and used to evaluating our value in a certain situation and environment, and then behaving in a way appropriate to the value we perceive that we have.

We do it in most areas, like in business, for example. You know your abilities and ask for an appropriate salary.

Or in communication, where we try to match our perception of our value within the group and behave accordingly.

We always want proof of our value before demanding appropriate pay. But this tactic is wrong. We were taught this intentionally, to "know our place" as good slaves. To always be subservient to people in power, because their "value" is higher than ours, which is false — it's a deception.

Our value as human beings should never be connected to anything. We have the right to express ourselves as we want, to talk as we want, about whatever we want, and to feel what we feel. No matter how much money we have or our status in society. This is the correct self-esteem setting.

You are infinitely precious to the universe that created you and keeps you alive. Who can lower your value after that? People can perceive and decide whatever they want, and you will still be you!

You don't need to earn your right to talk to anyone. If you want to, you do it. It's not a business. You don't have to pitch or propose any value. No one can reject you — only you can, by not doing what you want.

Never stop or limit yourself. Always go for whatever you want!