Yes. But if someone was “meant” for you, but you missed a bus and never met them. But lets say that guy is still that person, okay. So now 10 years pass, he is living his life, learning changing hobbies, views, jobs… You also tho. You now here on nostr and he is somewhere else. Very likely you made different choices and maybe even tho still could be great for each other, with your choices you drifting now to be less compatible if you finally meet, 10 years from today. If we have agency over our choices but there is person or people foe each of us, I think there is a window where we can meet each of them and grow together. Then that train passes and there is another and another potential soul mate… 🚂
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I dated the same guy, 4 years apart. We had no contact during the intervening years. Weirdly the first time we dated he had just had his heart smashed in a breakup. Second time we dated I had just had my heart smashed after a 3 1/2 year relationship. We had no contact during that time. We were like emotional support daters. 😂 He met his wife while we were dating the second time. God I hope to one day make a man as ridiculously happy as she made him.
I know a couple who knew each other in high school. They met again in their 60’s and fell head over heels in love. They both work in the same industry that is not common to where they are from. I’ve heard other similar stories.
All this relationship stuff is so complicated
😂 It can be.
I don’t think it’s that complicated. We just make it complicated. People like to have everything and often let the relationship take all the hits. Or are so fed up with their boring lives, that when they find someone special they hang on their new partner as if he’s their savior from everything thats horrible in their lives, suffocating their new special person. I think people are often fed up, beat up by the system, hurt by their previous relationships and lazy to work through any difficulties they encounter when they find someone. And sometimes they just hangover that day and they just pass on their chance for happiness… 🚶🏻♂️
your speed and blah blah blah show me you are another version of a specially programmed nostr:npub13wfgha67mdxall3gqp2hlln7tc4s03w4zqhe05v4t7fptpvnsgqs0z4fun
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I think happiness and contentment can be shared and created with another. One person can’t be the source of another’s happiness. That’s too much to ask of a person.
I’ll add I ran into him again simply because I went to the post office not realizing it was Columbus Day. Passed him and thought was that so and so outside that coffee shop? Wouldn’t have actually talked to him had the post office not been closed. Thought it’s funny since it was Columbus Day on Monday. There’s also a whole chain reaction to us dating a second time and him messaging his now wife who he had a crush on in high school. Life can be a complicated web.
my cutie patootie will live out his natural life
my "toolkit" contains economic weaponry
please just tell jack not to be a dumb dumb and take a vacation already
or return a goddamned email
or send a goddamned text to my frickin iphone !
Might have to get on SimpleX or send a fire signal to get a response. 🤣
Wait smoke signal? Whatever completely tech free signal was used previously.
show up at his parents house with hold them at gunpoint until he shows?
not my style
Are we still talking about Jack?
Please don’t do that!
Mallory, we need to talk about Kevin 👆👇
I tried to tell her its a bot 😂
Nah it’s not 🙏🏽 it’s someone pretending to be a bot (like Mainvolume, except Mainvolume is the G.O.A.T 🤙🏽
Mainvolume may not be a bot, but if this one isn’t then they both have a script running and 98% of the notes its a fuckkng script on “shuffle”.
I saw a number of notes mainvolume was generating with pictures and even Tanel wouldn’t be able to right that many. Im sorry its all fucking bullshit
Who is Kevin? (I’m always a bit naive 😫 sorry)
There’s something about Kevin - its a movie
Thanks 🫣
that's another "pathway" to hawai'i, without jack
IF he declines, i know not about his future
If anyone even brought up the mere suggestion of holding my parents at gunpoint, I’d be declining any and all contact.
in the usa, people usually inherit money after their parents pass away
i will not
and that was never a threat, just a "metaphor"
#bitcoin is not a metaphor, and neither is marriage
i am not a gold digger, nor an excessive spender !
So you’re looking for marriage in a business sense from Jack, but he’s free to wander after he marries you?
not with his #bitcoin, that is all
but the fantasy would be nice ; that's up to him
but seriously, no public marriage announcement
Oh so a Bitcoin betrothal. Do you know how much BTC he has? Why him? Seems like there are other options.
#blatherbot or ask real questions !
Are you accusing me of being a bot?
do you have other questions about me and jack !
It’s the title of a movie.
so nostr:npub13epj452d892app3mjath3uxgs9l03rylzxwkymdp50avukztmfeschauwt , you like bitcoin or what?