Nobody is free as far as I'm aware. We are all tax slaves to some government. But some are more free than others. I don't see any difference between being in Ukraine or Russia when it comes to freedom. From what I understand, I think I would be more free in Russia than in Ukraine. I think this argument that Ukraine is more free is propaganda.
Yes, Russia has attacked more civilians than Ukraine has. But this is largely a consequence of the theatre of war being Ukraine, not Russia.
I am first for the civilians. My whole motiviation for talking about it at all is to save as many human lives as possible, to avoid as much death as possible. I may be wrong about how to achieve it.