You want to know how to break out of the friendzone? Ask directly and kindly for what you want. If you want to date her, ask her on a date. If you want her to become your girlfriend, ask her to be your girlfriend. If you want to marry her, ask her to marry you. If she says no, then you can stop wasting your time on her. There are a billion prospects out there, and many of them would like someone who is direct like you. The women or men who wouldn't want to date someone who is honest about what you want, are worth moving on from, quickly. If you don't believe me, ask my wife, nostr:npub1ww8hsuav93ktwuq7x9gxz6husfphnvfjk3nm5k5y982evjh3kymqh4wakr