Narcissists will use this when they want to play victim and blame everything on you. Then they can say everything is your fault and you’re leaving them, even though that’s what they wanted. This still hurts even if it’s the best thing that could happen. It may be the opportunity you need. It definitely was for me.
https://blossom.primal.net/3f1e720a7e668d20fe9be8a7a1489719430f1274303583bfe55ae62719936831.mp4