still trying to get used to it

but that's life

you cannot always go back

I think that the nostr community is still missing a sense of data ownership. Like yes, it's cool that everything is cryptographically signed, but at the end of the day if people aren't holding onto their own data it still leaves the door open for relays to become centralized and for people to lose sight of the wider network.

Just like IRL. You can't take back something you've said in public.