If your "identity" contradicts physical reality then it is an error you have imagined. The way to be a healthy person is to integrate your identity with reality, not deny reality or take a knife to it. Some people have things seriously inverted.
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Agree! Jeff, respond to my DM 😂 we met in Nashville!
Do you believe in bodily autonomy? And to be clear I'm not talking about children, I'm talking about adults. Do they have the right to do what they want with there own bodies?
Also, all identity is basically imagined. Personalities are cloaks that we wear. I certainly can't deny there's a contradiction going on in that person's reality, I'm just saying it's not really my business how they go about resolving that but i wish them the best. Further, should they ask me to refer to them by some pronoun or other it's not really any skin off my nose to be polite and respect that. I suppose you think that's enabling and encouraging their delusion, to me it's just polite.
Sure, but if someone wanted you to cut off their perfectly healthy arm, or jump off a ledge, would you help them do that or would your try to talk them out of such self destructive things?
Do you understand that genital mutilation doesn't change a person's biology & that the drugs & surgeries lead to serious health complications & a completely & permanently disfuctional life going forward?
You should look into the horrible things that "doctors" are doing to these people to the tune of millions of dollars, and govt policy is socializing the costs... why? The crazy suicide rate among these people is really not surprising.
If somebody came to me asking for advice on their gender dysphoria and what to do about it I wouldn't be comfortable either encouraging or discouraging any action, definitely not surgery or hormones, but would more likely help them find support from communities and professionals that understand what they're going through better than I can.
If someone was attempting to mutilate or kill themselves I'd obviously try to talk them out of whatever stressed state they were in. It's a different situation.
I understand there can be all kinds of complications with gender reassignment, and some people even strongly regret it later. Again, it's not my business to say what's right for any individual. For some people it seems to have helped them. Good for them.
That government socialises the costs isn't a problem unique to this specific kind of care, that's a problem across the board. I don't really like that I have to cover costs of people that live unhealthy lifestyles either, but it's still their own business if they want to drink, or smoke, or eat cake, or whatever.