maybe it's just the perspective out of europe that doesnt let me understand the problem. we do not have to deal with these things (mass shootings e.g.), nobody is armed.
by the way i'm absolutely impressed that we can have a dialogue here on nostr to a very difficult topic without yelling something about each others moms. i like that. thats a massive win. cheers to you bro, we won't find a solution together but i can understand you and respect your opinion even though i dont share it.