Here's what they miss:

- Life is really really brutal alone; a family is the best chance you have at contentment. Gender roles are the ancient playbook for reserved rights and responsibilities uniquely suited to everyone's inherint properties. They are priveleges more than anything.

- In peacetime men can seem like a frivolous tyranny but in wartime the memory of intertribal chaos returns.

- The children serve the parents. The wife serves the husband. The husband serves his community, his own mission, and Jesus Christ. Everyone works. Everyone serves.

- Life isn't about pleasure, it's about harvesting enough meaning and growth so that you can be a positive example and ultimately die with courage.

- Absolute freedom doesn't exist.