In theory, you might not be alone, but in practice, you are. Remember that, selfishness is essential nowadays.
Discussion
being selfish has nothing to do with being yourself and taking good care of yourself and your loved ones.
maybe you are changing the meaning of selfishness. maybe you are not and still think it's the right thing to do. I don't believe taking care of myself or my family more than taking care of others is the way to truly benefit us. I think it keeps us apart and it is this feeling of being apart that causes incentives for hurting others.
I think it's normal to want to take care of myself and my loved ones as a priority, but the work I've been doing is to take care of them in a way that I take care of all at the same time. and taking care of others without leaving my loved ones behind.
I would love to talk about that in Portuguese, but I don't think you would be interested. it was good to see your post and come here to think about it, thank you.
What I actually meant was that you should take care of your family, but you need to be well yourself in order to do so. In other words, if you can’t even take care of yourself, you can’t take care of your family either. But the truth is, once you’re well, family naturally becomes the priority. That’s the kind of thing I was trying to say.
I’d also like to be able to chat in Portuguese if you’d like—I’m available. But thanks for the response
if you think it's ok to answer in Portuguese the posts you write in English, let me know. :)
I agree with you. I just don't think it's selfish to do so.