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Dont be afraid to have children.

They change your life, give it meaning and make it worth waking up in the morning.

It's the greatest thing you'll ever do.

So many people now wait till its too late, or think I'll "cramp my lifestyle", but the truth is, having kids surpasses every other thing you think gives your life value.

Do it, you'll love it :)

Pana - The Refuge Network State 3mo ago

Counter Take:

You know when someone talks so freely about having kids in the plural, that they come from means. 💸

Have money, have family and leftover to let your kids inherit - great ✔️

If not, in this economy, imagine working 2 jobs to get by yourself, but then you add more mouths to feed so you're enslaved forever.

Not to mention, it's 👉 super selfish to those kids👈, because they're forever enslaved to the system too -

✔️ Rising rent,

✔️ High taxes,

✔️ adulting,

✔️ dating in gender violence,

✔️ intolerance for neurodivergence and sexual prefs,

✔️ fascism and dying freedom of speech

✔️ nation state nightmares, CBDC threats

✔️ mortgage, forced community,

✔️ forced schooling,

✔️ forced childbirth,

✔️ shrinkflation price gouging,

✔️ a warming planet,

✔️ unending jobs,

✔️ shrinking economy and more.

You must really hate your children, and really love yourself if you don't think 100 times before having them. 💯

#ChildrenOfRefuge #ThinkTwice #EconomicRefuge #Adulting #Nostr #ExtremistOpinions

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Bond008 3mo ago

Would you rather be poor or dead?

Pana - The Refuge Network State 3mo ago

Bond008 3mo ago

No one is stopping you. But deep down you know you prefer being alive. Consider that at one point in time someone did the favor of creating and raising you. Could be cool for you to pass on that favor. Something to ponder. Cheers

Pana - The Refuge Network State 3mo ago

In a Utopian world, we'd all dream of that, right?

The problem is utopian dreams in IRL dystopia.

Anyway we're echoing the sentiments of lived experiences. Those cannot be invalidated by any thought experiments.

Bond008 3mo ago

If you cant figure out a way by 30 years old to afford a studio apartment in an affordable small town and work online, especially if you split it with a significant other, and have money left over for formula and baby clothes etc. Have you ever considered maybe you are the source of your own problems? Perhaps you are not and you are disabled or some other issue I am not aware of. But you are at least aware of bitcoin and that is a great start.

This is not a utopia I speak of. People in very poor countries figure out how to do this every day. If you are capable of having kids and reject doing so even though someone sacrificed to do it for you, perhaps you are being selfish.

We can agree fiat is destroying the world. But you have to admit, there are many people who can afford kids, however choose not to because their nihilism and delusions about being able to predict the weather 30 years from now have convinced them to choose selfishness.