I disagree with you. It’s a problem, there are several unintended or intended consequences to blowing out the OP_Return data limit. I think there is a lack of understanding, laziness and complacency that underscores people’s indifference, not that it’s FUD. This is a technical tug of war over the network. Being diligent and educated on the subject doesn’t make one “frantic.”
Do you run a node? If so, why? If not, why? Do you use core, or knots? Why?