I get that. I have studied math and teach math. My closest female friends are math profs like me. Our mentors are all men, mathematicians from earlier generations.

But I have the worst “daddy issues” that I should be a country musician. I could write a book about my daddy issues.

But my professors during my formative years gave me security and structure and I still know them well to this day, so you are correct in that regard. I did not realize working in a male dominated field has had this unintended but positive consequence.

Interesting. Nice.

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And after this female mentorship you ended up married and are currently in family life?

I did end up married. I lost my husband tragically and it took me too long to recover. It still hurts a decade later. I do not know how people jump into a new relationship after something like that.

I ran off to teach for the Peace Corps for a while then found my purpose with other worthy pursuits instead of remarrying. I am too old to have children of my own now.

All my friends are married with families and I am happy to be Auntie Drea. Sounds sad, but I am actually like Candide, convinced I live in the best if all possible worlds 🤣

Sorry for your loss.