I agree all labor should be paid unless she doesn’t want to be paid for it. If she’s cooking and cleaning the home then she should be paid. Idk why it’s weird to pay your partner but not weird to pay a chef or maid. But i think some people like to leave it vague and ambiguous because someone is usually getting the better end of the deal. Like if a woman gets access to a credit card and can spend as much as she wants, she may be better off than collecting money for her work. This should be more normalized for sure.