What if you say it “in a polite way”, e.g. “zapping notes does not align with Apple’s policy, however zapping profiles still works on Damus. If you’d like to donate a few sats to this user, visit his profile”?
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How about still keep the zap button on a note, make it abundantly clear that the fund goes to the profile however add a text field to add a message on the zap & a button that copies the note id as a message ? That way the wallet becomes the source of knowing what note got zapped, don’t know if that solves anything or is even compliant
Will tried that but Apple wasn’t satisfied
Or this picture of a rotten Apple? 