I see. I obviously don’t know all the details, but as a married man myself I would try to make it work. When you make that commitment it has to mean something. Your wife, kids, extended family, and community are all affected by a divorce. Unless he is being abused, I would think long and hard before going thru with a divorce. Even if he is not religious, I would encourage him to read what the bible has to say about love and marriage. Men are supposed to protect and provide for their families. I think focusing on that and serving others will go along way to changing his outlook on life. I’ve seen men in my life sacrifice their happiness for the sake of the family and I’m thankful they did. Probably not what he wants to hear, but those are my 2 sats