I think people put off reproduction as long as possible because it's the only decision they have to make, which is heavily weighed upon by their own mortality and physical decline.

Our lives are so comfortable and our life spans are so long, that we like to pretend that there is no inherent physiological advantage to the young. That the passage of time doesn't matter. That youth is forever. We extend and pretend.

44 year-old women are desperately claiming that 44 is the new 34, and 34 year-old women are claiming that 34 is the new 24.

No, 24 and 34 are where they have always been. 44 is the middle, same as it always was. You are now heading toward the end. Be happy, that you lived long enough, to grow old. Enjoy your decline.

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hah, and some of us are 30s and feel more like 40s...

so by the time i'm in 40s with no kid energy to arrest my decline into a grumpy old man, it's going to be a quick slide into becoming a ghost.

I will be a happy haunt tho

I'm in my 40s and feel like my 50s and look like my 30s. 😂

That could be the case, probably it is at least in part.

Historically in your 40s you would be becoming a grandparent.

I would add to the aspects of comfort and longevity that society has largely pushed age and death aside. This allows us to indulge in the illusion of our own permanence for even longer.

most wealthy and educated societies have lower replacement rate .. no wonder they get replaced !

making babies is NOT only a survival (of race or nation) thing ... it is the best accomplishment possible - human brain has 1000x more parameters than chatGPT3 - and human body is the most versatile robotics ... so ..

I had rather train a baby than a computer :-)