With all due respect, the position you never seem to hear is the same one I articulated in the discussion you referred to. And I was not alone in that.

Gender differences are measurable, persistent, cross-cultural, and may often be correlated with neurological and endocrinological substrates.

There are particular forms of maladaptive thinking to which women, in general and on average, are disproportionately prone.

If the observations are consistent across place and time, then they should be recognised and acknowledged before developing policies to mitigate them.

This should not be any more controversial than male predominance in red-green colour blindness or autism-spectrum disorders.