Polarity is a primary measure for successful relationships. It doesn't matter if you are masculine or feminine. Just know what your primary essence is and be it. This has nothing to do with gender as your primary could be either. We're talking basic biological programing that simply exists.
I think the bigger issue is each of us not knowing how we identify, in a healthy way, as masculine and feminine. For example, many highly educated feminine females I know get forced into their masculine, especially in business, since society expects it to "get the job done." This is also present in running a household or raising kids. I also know many masculine men that don't understand what that means and are still stuck in boyhood as there is a lack of coming of age rituals in our society that help boys transition to men. When each of us are not aligned with who we truly are, there is so much internal conflict, it comes out sideways... and in projection and victimization.
Whether a someone wants to stay home or not has nothing to do with it. Advanced degrees, money, height, and lingam length as well. We all get to choose what is best for us and it's a lot easier to find true compatibility when each of us starts with... ourselves. It's an internal job folks. If you're not finding the person you're looking for or you're unhappy, start with YOU!
