How you show up in life is the only thing under your control.
Discussion
Out of curiosity, are you religious?
Nope.
Ty for sharing your point of view.
Whether or not one believes in fate or destiny will be determined by whether or not one believes things are deterministic or random. I happen to believe the former and it sounds like you believe the latter.
Correct 👍
Exactly, always choose that belief that serves you best.
I don’t hold on to any belief dearly. Someone new information and viewpoints present themselves and I’ll consider them.