From my 6 close friends from high school mid 30's
(Germany)
1 have a house
1 an Appartment
1 ist married
2 have 1 kid
From my 2 Brothers and 2 my 2 cousins in there mid 30's:
0 are home owner
2 are married
1 ist alredy divorced
3 have kids (not the divorced one)
There ist no single person with kids, married and a home. I would say: 50% of the person still try to get all of the 3 things, most difficult seema to BE the homeownership.