i think i understand what you are trying to express. but i don't think anyone can "teach" you to love yourself—it has to come from within.
maybe inspire would be a better word? my Wife has shaped me into a much better person than i would ever be without Her, but i don't think She could teach me that.
i recognized that self-love was what i was lacking when i noticed a pattern of hurt due to validation seeking. but i had to do the work myself in order to rise and meet Her where i could love and be loved...
idk if that makes sense