I found that sometimes gift wrapping the dms would make them not show up in other apps not sure exactly why. Think because the meta data was so well hidden was my best guess 🤷 not exactly sure tho.
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What I’ve experienced is giftwrapped convos only process in a client (and of course relays) that support them.
So if someone DMs from from Primal for example, who doesn’t gift wrap, then I don’t see replies for that contact in YakiHonne or 0xChat
Mine seems to be the reversed I only see the convos across all apps if they are not gift-wrapped. I have tested this with ox chat and amythys and both support gift-wrap msg. I'm sure once that become the standard format we won't see the issue of dms