I am a firm supporter of mild bullism in school.
If could be a way to unlock shy kids from being pussies and learn to fight back, a very useful skill to have later in life.
Change my mind.
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#bitcoinjujitsu
That's bullshit...as a bullied child i've spent a lot of time thinking about what was wrong with my interests.
For example, i never cared much about cool clothes and fashion stuffs in general, so i was considered to be "strange" because i was not uniforming my dressing style to the others.
Another example, i was that nerdy child very interested in space related science stuffs, and in general very curious about science and technology, but that sounded strange because i was not spending my whole days talking about gossip or watching cartoons.
Third, and for now the last example, i spent so much time outside exploring my city's surroundings riding my bike with a friend, but we both were "strange" because we never visited a disco.
Now...if this experience had certainly teached me in the long run that people can be bad, it also damaged my original self, killing all my interests for a quite long time, making me uniform to others for years to not feel different.
I fought back at a certain point, but it's something that wastes energy and time, the most scarce resources in life, even more than bitcoins...
Plus, to keep "mental illness" away from society a more effective way is to spread knowledge to everyone, and certainly not letting kids bully other kids.
Se vuoi te lo rispiego in italiano se non è chiaro
Sounds like you stopped cultivating your interests and hobbies to make people like you, or at least do not disdain you.
Sounds to me like a "you" problem.
I imagine they weren't holding you at gun point preventing to go outside or study spinning balls of gasses, you decided at some point to not pursue your interests to conform.
I was bullied too, because I was a Sicilian boy, a mafioso, growing up in a different land, because I had a dandruff problem and an acne problem, because I used to wear glasses, because I played videogames back when it wasn't a cool habit, rather a basement dweller one, because I had a round belly.
That didn't stop me to be me or to fight back, I kicked everyone's ass one by one until the bullying stopped and I truly believed that it made me stronger.
I showered more often, used Topexan for my face, lost weight and made them see what a Sicilian guy can do, than a non Sicilian guy cannot.
It is not up to others to protect your feelings, otherwise you are no different than the woke mass retardation.
Plus I said mild. Violence as an offense is never the answer, but as defense is one helluva answer.
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Happy you took care of it by yourself.
Doesn’t mean it applies to everyone.
Kicking everyone’s ass is all well and nice if you have the phyiscal means to do it, and if no one decides to escalate and bring something extra for revenge.
If we follow your logic and all kids would want to be bullies, you’d soon have plenty of teethless children, or worse.
I firmly believe all kids (boys, and especially girls) should be taught how to defend themselves, but I also believe kids should learn to respect and look out for eachother.
The two usually go hand in hand, and will lead to better outcomes over time for everyone.
Certainly no one should care for his own feelings more than the person itself.
That doesn't mean we should incourage bullism, mild or violent or whatever form you wish to name.
With no doubt that situations make you stronger or annihilate you, but wishing that to any other person is quite selfish.
I want the society to improve, not to stand still on the '80s.
Stammi bene
I don’t see how being bullied, or being a bully, would help any child achieve anything useful. On the contrary it has proven to be very damaging, often over the course of their lives.
Are you implying there’s something wrong with shy kids, to begin with ?
Probably one of the worst post i've seen on nostr so far...
Saying that being bullied is good for you is like saying that fiat standard is good for you.
No. Fucking. Way.
Building toghether is way more powerful than fighting each other.
Stop this boomer mindset
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