But he has a point, am a dad since a year now. Took us some years to get pregnant so ended up being parents a few years later than expected, you just never know. My uncle told me when his two boys were little that he became a dad too late, everything hurts and he lost his cool a lot quicker the older he got (his words).

But the little dude is amazing love (almost) every moment and it really helped me gain perspective, I now much more often just say f* that it's not important I'll go play / hang out with the little guy. Get energy back and achieved more in the last year than probably the 5 before.