You're straw manning and reading your own insecurities into what I wrote. I simply dismantled your flawed logic around your attempted conflation of European, and American culture and internal and external locus of control, and last I checked a man is not his logic which is what I addressed. You're allowed to believe and be and think whatever you want, but whining about getting some pushback in a public forum, which is what's happening, is par for the course, especially when you complain about someone encouraging others, when a healthy and functional man would respond positively, but that's not what you did and I'm calling you on it.