Yes, you can. On Iris; go to Settings, Network, and then select the relays that you want to post to. Anyone you give access to could rebroadcast the notes to a larger set of relays. So it's only as private as your trusted circle.

You could also just DM yourself and it would be encrypted.

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It would be nice if you could easily do it at each note rather than having to go to settings and change everything before going back to post a note and then going back to settings to set it back to the default.

You'd have to take that up with the developer. But you could use a different client such as Amethyst or Plebster and have that client only set to your personal relay. If you also added that relay to Iris you could view it everywhere and all your public lists would be backed up on your personal relay.

Thanks for the idea.