why do you need/use a thirdparty if you don't want it? I don't think it is needed, is it?
Discussion
Initial Q is about Nostr zapping.
nostr:npub1dgpt04w4c88wc0g262xaw8zvlm4mvwtmjhl0tn2sxtyjywsn6q4qt8ka3a asked about how to incentivise people to zap more. imo first is the liquidity. If you have sats scattered across different hot wallets, it would be nice for a Nostr client to do that seamlessly. Today as far as I know, and I use it, Alby allows to connect multiple wallets to make that onramp/aggregator across wallets possible.
Am still in new on Nostr and using Alby, so any clarification will be appreciated.