Guess I'm not reaI.

I don't go out of my way to offend people, I ask myself, "to what end?" and maintain an acute awareness that I may be wrong, and certainly don't have all the information.

That said, I do lean into friction but interaction should be voluntary and part of that is having a rule set, dropping f bombs don't actually hurt anyone, but I'm not going to do it around your nearly 90 year old grandparent.

I urge you all to think of the person who states "I'm just being me" when they are acting like an asshole. We all adjust to the social norms of our situation: with the exception of autistic narcissist-leaning assholes and individuals with borderline personality disorder.