Technically no, but technically most people who *need* to delete are being harassed by a gang or stalked by an ex or extorted by local popos in a small country w/o the sort of visibility you're talking about.
The need to pull your content out of just popular circulation in those instances can be lifesaving. I've had to do it twice.
I’m sorry to hear that. Nostr does support delete requests, the argument is that that’s all it is, a request: once you put something out there you have no longer control of who made a copy, took a picture, memorized it, etc.
This debate has already been had on Mastodon and the conclusion tends to be that it usually works well enough to implement it, though it’s not 100%
Haha, I love your display name. Very pertinent to this context 🙌
Yes, but since delete requests are in the very baseline of spec I wouldn't call relays who willfully ignore it "Nostr relays", by definition, any more than if they broke protocol with a different JSON blob.
I guess all we can do is name, shame and avoid them.
Maybe, but nothing would prevent anybody, including the victim here, from using those relays in a nostr client without knowing that fact
