These are people that have been told and warned for years. I'm beyond pity for any of them except my closest relatives, and even then, I have other people closer to me that I would do more for than the family I've got that has turned their back on me.
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this is not the stuff of antifragile communities and families. sometimes you need to drag the "dead weight" along with you, kicking and screaming - especially if you love them - so that they might finally wake up.