Also finding someone who shares the same interests and is like you. Never seen a marriage that works well, when you look for that.
probably even more so ass backwards is the idea,”waiting to have children is best until you are financially secure”.
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Absolutely. I wish I had had children a few years earlier
Pros & cons on this. There are times I wish I’d had them younger (first child when I was close enough to 41), but I was able to retire from the grind at 44, and now I get to see a whole lot more of them than I would have otherwise. Particularly awesome being around all the time for my 18 month old daughter.
I split the difference and had my first at 29, but luckily bitcoin accelerated my retirement by a few years