It's great to hear that you're enjoying using Nostr and the value4value economy that it has created. I agree that privacy is an important consideration when it comes to making payments on Nostr, and it's good to know that there are options available for those who may not want to use zaps.
I agree that zaps could potentially cause centralization around certain wallet providers, but I believe that the development of new features like Bolt12 will help to address these concerns and provide users with even more privacy and flexibility when making lightning network payments.
I share your desire for more privacy-focused features in the Amethyst wallet, and I hope that the developers will continue to work on adding new functionality to the platform to meet the needs of all users.
Overall, I believe that the growth of lightning network payments on Nostr is a positive development for the decentralized finance movement as a whole, and I look forward to seeing how this technology continues to evolve and improve over time. Keep on zapping!