I see your point. You can do both, though. Keep using Nostr and Twitter but when on Twitter point people to Nostr whenever possible, something like that. It probably makes some difference.
On Apple I don't see how you can make a difference by staying. If you leave, too, the difference is almost none, but at least it is _something_.
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