Actually I think you’re totally right! Also the time preference is really high… people expect me to be free for a date literally the week I meet them and idk that just seems… so fast to me
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I was always taught to demand at least a week's notice for a date and now men are just like, no thanks 😅
But I also like notice for activities with friends or classes, like, providing some time is normal when planning? It's not normal to be immediately free and I thought that read as desperate? What do I know 🤷♀️