"Should" can be a shallow substitute for integrated identity.
When a person finds out who they really are, many of the things they "should" do come forth automatically.
Discussion
that's interesting. Question is, is there more than one answer to the question, "who am I?"?
Identity is dimensional, and runs from the deep, to the shallow. In the deepest places, identity is basically indelible, while shallower senses of identity can change.
I was expecting something more about us being children of God, and when we are secure in Christ we are transformed by the Holy Spirit over time into the people we are meant to be.
People with unarticulated expectations tend to not get what they didn't explicitly ask for.